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Pakistani
families are very close, often consisting of grandparents,
parents and children living together in the same house. The
smaller family is becoming more of a reality in the urban
centres. The elderly often live with their children and are
treated with great respect. Children tend to accompany their
parents to most social events. Important events in the family's
life are celebrated with relatives and friends. Pakistani
families are usually large because children are considered
to be gifts from God or Allah. Teaching children the beliefs
of Islam is considered to be one of the most important responsibilities
of family life.
Most
Pakistani marriages are arranged. When a couple is married,
the bride applies mehndi or henna paste to her hands and feet
and the quazi, the religious leader, administers the nikah
or marriage contract. Strong traditions and values influence
women's status in the family and in the community. These affect
opportunities for education and for work, especially for less
privileged women.
When
a male baby is born, circumcision is performed in accordance
with religious rites. When he is seven days old, the family
holds an aqeeqa ceremony, which is a family feast. Both men
and women wear the shalwar-kameez, the national dress. This
consists of loose pants gathered at the waist and worn with
a long shirt. The women's clothing is more colourful, and
is worn with a long scarf or dupatta. Some wear a chaddar,
which is a shawl or long garment. In the urban areas men are
more likely to wear western-style clothes.
Wealthy
families and middle-class families live in bungalows or large
apartment buildings. Many employ servants to perform various
household duties. In the cities' poorer areas, families live
in two or three room dwellings. In rural Pakistan, cooking
is still done on small kerosene stoves, clothes are washed
on the banks of rivers and water is transported from rivers
and wells.
More
than 97% of Pakistan's population is Muslim. The remaining
3% is made up of Hindus, Buddhists, Zoroastrians and Christians.
Islam is the official religion of Pakistan. A Federal Shariat
Court has been set up to review the country's laws in the
light of the Islamic penal code. Muslims are guided by the
Quran, or Koran, the holy book, which they believe was revealed
to the Prophet Mohammed.
Islam,
Christianity and Judaism share many common beliefs and traditions.
The giving of alms and compassion for the poor are stressed
in these religions. Muslims are obliged to give 2.5% of their
wealth to the needy. All three religions also stress the transitory
nature of life on earth as a preparation for the hereafter.
Devout
Muslims must heed the call of prayer five times every day.
They pray facing the city of Mecca in Saudia Arabia. Most
Muslims will arrange their schedules according to the prayer
times. The prayer is preceded by the required ablution, which
means washing the face, hands and feet. Friday is the Muslim
holy day and most Pakistanis participate in congregational
prayers in the mosque.
The
Five Pillars of Islam Tawheed: Belief in the oneness of Allah
and the prophethood of Mohammed Salaat: Five daily prayers
Zakaat: The giving of alms to the needy Sawim: Fasting during
the month of Ramadan Haj: Pilgrimage to Mecca
Once
a year, there is Ramadan, the holy month of fasting. No food
or drink is permitted from dawn to dusk. The end of this month
is celebrated with special meals and festivities for Eid-al-Fitr.
Muslims are also required to perform the Hajj, a holy pilgrimage
to Mecca, once in their lifetime if they are financially able
to do so. The last day of the pilgrimage commemorates the
second major festival of Islamic belief,Eid-al-Adha.
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