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Life slips away second
by second. Are you aware that every day brings you closer
to death or that death is as close to you as it is to other
people?
As we are told in the verse "Every
soul shall taste death in the end; to Us shall you be brought
back." (Surat al-'Ankabut: 57) everyone who has ever appeared
on this earth was destined to die. Without exception they
all died, every one. Today, we hardly come across the traces
of many of these people who passed away. Those currently
living and those who will ever live will also face death
on a predestined day. Despite this fact, people tend to
see death as an unlikely incident.
Think of a baby who has just opened
its eyes to the world and a man who is about to breathe
his last. Both had no influence on their individual birth
or death whatsoever. Only God possesses the power to inspire
the breath of life or to take it away.
All human beings will live until a
certain day and then die; God in the Qur'an gives an account
of the attitude commonly shown towards death in the following
verse:
Say: "The death from which you flee
will truly overtake you: then you will be sent back to the
Knower of things secret and open: and He will tell you (the
truth of) the things that you did!" (Surat al-Jumu'ah: 8)
The majority of people avoid thinking
about death. In the rapid flow of daily events, a person
usually occupies himself with totally different subjects:
what college to enrol in, which company to work for, what
colour of clothing to wear next morning, what to cook for
supper; these are the kinds of major issues that we usually
consider. Life is perceived as a routine process of such
minor matters. Attempts to talk about death are always interrupted
by those who do not feel comfortable hearing about it. Assuming
death will come only when one grows older, one does not
want to concern himself with such an unpleasant subject.
Yet it should be kept in mind that living for even one further
hour is never guaranteed. Everyday, man witnesses the deaths
of people around him but thinks little about the day when
others will witness his own death. He never supposes that
such an end is awaiting him!
Nevertheless, when death comes to man,
all the "realities" of life suddenly vanish. No reminder
of the "good old days" endures in this world. Think of everything
that you are able to do right now: you can blink your eyes,
move your body, speak, laugh; all these are functions of
your body. Now think about the state and shape your body
will assume after your death.
From the moment you breathe for the
last time, you will become nothing but a "heap of flesh".
Your body, silent and motionless, will be carried to the
morgue. There, it will be washed for the last time. Wrapped
in a shroud, your corpse will be carried in a coffin to
the graveyard. Once your remains are in the grave, soil
will cover you. This is the end of your story. From now
on, you are simply one of the names represented in the graveyard
by a marble stone.
During the first months or years, your
grave will be visited frequently. As time passes, fewer
people will come. Decades later, there will be no-one.
Meanwhile, your immediate family members
will experience a different aspect of your death. At home,
your room and bed will be empty. After the funeral, little
of what belongs to you will be kept at home: most of your
clothes, shoes, etc, will be given to those who need them.
Your file at the public registration office will be deleted
or archived. During the first years, some will mourn for
you. Yet, time will work against the memories you left behind.
Four or five decades later, there will remain only a few
who remember you. Before long, new generations will come
and none of your generation will exist any longer on earth.
Whether you are remembered or not will be worthless to you.
While all this is taking place in the
world, the corpse under the soil will go through a rapid
process of decay. Soon after you are placed in the grave,
the bacteria and insects proliferating in the corpse due
to the absence of oxygen will start to function. The gasses
released from these organisms will inflate the body, starting
from the abdomen, altering its shape and appearance. Bloody
froth will pop out the mouth and nose due to the pressure
of gasses on the diaphragm. As corruption proceeds, body
hair, nails, soles, and palms will fall off. Accompanying
this outer alteration in the body, internal organs such
as lungs, heart and liver will also decay. In the meantime,
the most horrible scene takes place in the abdomen, where
the skin can no longer bear the pressure of gasses and suddenly
bursts, spreading an unendurably disgusting smell. Starting
from the skull, muscles will detach from their particular
places. Skin and soft tissues will completely disintegrate.
The brain will decay and start looking like clay. This process
will go on until the whole body is reduced to a skeleton.
There is no chance of going back to
the old life again. Gathering around the supper table with
family members, socialising or to having an honourable job
will never again be possible.
In short, the "heap of flesh and bones"
to which we assign an identity faces a quite nasty end.
On the other hand, you - or rather, your soul - will leave
this body as soon as you breathe your last. The remainder
of you - your body - will become part of the soil.
Yes, but what is the reason for all
these things happening?
If God willed, the body would never
have decayed in such a way. That it does so actually carries
a very important inner message in itself.
The tremendous end awaiting man should
make him acknowledge that he is not a body himself, but
a soul "encased" within a body. In other words, man has
to acknowledge that he has an existence beyond his body.
Furthermore, man should understand the death of his body
which he tries to possess as if he is to remain eternally
in this temporal world. However this body, which he deems
so important, will decay and become worm-eaten one day and
finally be reduced to a skeleton. That day might be very
soon.
Despite all these facts, man's mental
process is inclined to disregard what he does not like or
want. He is even inclined to deny the existence of things
he avoids confronting. This tendency seems to be most apparent
when death is the issue. Only a funeral or the sudden death
of an immediate family member brings this reality to mind.
Almost everybody sees death far from himself. The assumption
is that those who die while sleeping or in an accident are
different people and what they face will never befall us!
Everybody thinks it is too early to die and that there are
always years ahead to live.
Yet most probably, people who die on
the way to school or hurrying to attend a business meeting
shared the same thought. They probably never thought that
the next day's newspapers would publish news of their deaths.
It is entirely possible that, as you read these lines, you
still do not expect to die soon after you have finished
them or even entertain the possibility that it might happen.
Probably you feel that it is too early to die because there
are many things to accomplish. However, this is just an
avoidance of death and these are only vain endeavours to
escape it:
Say: "Running away will not profit
you if you are running away from death or slaughter; and
even if (you do escape), no more than a brief (respite)
will you be allowed to enjoy!"(Surat al-Ahzab: 16)
Man who is created alone should be
aware that he will also die alone. Yet during his life,
he lives almost addicted to possessions. His sole purpose
in life becomes to possess more. Yet, no-one can take his
goods with him to the grave. The body is buried wrapped
in a shroud made from the cheapest of fabrics. The body
comes into this world alone and departs from it in the same
way. The only asset one can take with him when one dies
is one's belief or disbelief.
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